Ever Get That Feeling?

[SECJay]

Does anyone ever get that feeling that you've done something wrong because your noticing people are shutting you out, ignoring you & all that crap? Finished work today went home to the girlfriends & she hasn't spoken a word to me since I've been home, we've then gone to her friends during the drive she didn't speak to me even though I was trying to instigate conversation... Now in an awkward situation round her friends house as Gemma is now talking to her friend but not me? What do I do? Shall I just get up n go? Or sit there in this uncomfortable situation & weight it out praying that she speaks to me? I honestly don't know what I've done wrong...? I'm not speaking to anyone bar people on this forum, I am now single crewed with the dogs (in training) but I honestly don't know what to do??


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[CAG JB]

Just chill man,just chill.There will come a point if something's on her mind and bothering her from yourself she will eventually bring it to light.

Relationships are all about good communication from both sides(talking and listening),my relationship in its early days would have had its problems because back then it was early days,the honeymoon period if want to call it that and them communication skills take time to work on and build upon.As time went on we both realise that we want the same things in life and that its easier to work things out when some adult communication is present.

Shell talk when she's ready man and not before it.

[SprayAim]

Women.... They can never be straight up when something is bothering them. No offence to any Cagettes in the clan but seriously... Wtf? Sort it out ladies

We're not fucking mind readers


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[CAG JB]

^^^here here

[SECJay]

Spray they'd have a shock of their life's if we were mind readers, I know where your coming from JB but she wouldn't have agreed to make a baby with me where she has two daughters already with someone else (twins) & I've got a 3 year old son with someone else, me n Gemma clicked instantly - met through a friend and that was that but tbh I don't think I could live without her if you know what I mean


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[SprayAim]

Spray they'd have a shock of their life's if we were mind readers, I know where your coming from JB but she wouldn't have agreed to make a baby with me where she has two daughters already with someone else (twins) & I've got a 3 year old son with someone else, me n Gemma clicked instantly - met through a friend and that was that but tbh I don't think I could live without her if you know what I mean


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I just thank the Lord I don't believe in that they aren't mind readers.... All you fellas know we think some fucked up shit :S


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[SECJay]

Hahaha!!! True that brother


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[CAG JB]

Yeah man know exactly what you mean buddy.the wife and I where pretty much the same,we got talking one night coming out of two separate bars and fell in love and we've been together ever since(nearly 11 years on).
Yeah theres times where she does my fucking head right in but then theres times where she's the kindest person anyone could ever meet,a person that makes me smile and a person that I couldn't live without

[CAG Cookie]

Don't know if you want to follow advice from a chick... Lol. But if she isn't speaking to you then you need to show her you don't need her to speak to you. As long as you are good and haven't done anything then there is no need for her to treat you like that. It could be the "friend" that is having issues is causing her to doubt y'all. I say ask her if she want to play "just the tip", make sure her "friend" isn't tapping that, or get the liquored up and ask for a threesome!

Sitting in my beanbag chair naked while eating Cheetos and scratching my crabs.

[SECJay]

Cookie what do you mean by showing her I don't need her to speak to me(


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