Well today I went and bought a new headset, I was on a tight budget so I went for the turtle beach x-ones. I have used them for a few hours and can honestly say I don't know how I managed with none before.
just letting you all know they are a great piece of kit for the price(£50). Also it said wired on the box, to me this meant wires from the TVs/Xbox , I was so glad to find that it was just a single wire from the Xbox controller.
couldnt be happier can't wait to smash some cod tonight