The title states it pretty clear.
I don't understand how recruits miss the big neon red instructions.
If your not reading them, then your going to have problems understanding how things work, and it WILL be easy to tell that you haven't read them.
So from this point I will not accept blind friend requests. I will be making a note every time BF3 gets a new recruit so I can keep track. But if you don't read the instructions, don't expect to get on my friends list.