so maybe your confused if you should still call me grits. maybe you think i'll get upset. nope, not all. call me whatever you like. try to stay away from just blame though (MECHRO!) its a bit awkward. don't ask i'm odd. so you guys/gals can call me grits (most do). if you want to use the new name call me god. lol. if that's offensive or undoable its not a problem. I feel you. go with grits. my government (birth name) is matt. but I don't call folks by theirs it feels awkward. im weird. call me asshole if you like. sometimes its applicable. whatever you do call me maybe. OHHHH wordplay.