@ Ry8114 - Don't worry about not getting kills , I sometimes go games without a kill but if the team won I am happy. You will see as time goes by that I am very intense when it comes to playing online , especially when I am with the Clan, so don't get insulted when we yell at each other for doing something or not doing something, this will be something that you will hear all of us say from time to time.
As for being in the clan , we invite everyone to the squad from the get go, as long as you communicate during games you will be fine. As for the damn server shit, don't worry about that either, we have had games with UK players in the past nad had no problems, its their fucked up servers that are causing all these issues.
So just hang in there Ry, soon you will be moving around in games like its your own house, you will know where to go and you will hear things that you know what they mean and know how to respond to them.